My Thoughts: We Need to Talk about Kevin – Lionel Shriver


I’ve gone through my fair share of dark reads, but this was one of the darkest and heaviest books I’ve ever read. A teenage boy goes on a chillingly-planned and executed school shooting rampage, and the book is basically his mother’s bewildered, anguished perspective, vainly struggling to figure out how it all went wrong, starting right from Kevin’s birth up to that fateful day and its misery-laden aftermath.
As Eva the mother agonized and picked over each step of her doomed parenting sojourn, it was impossible for me as a mother to distance myself from her terrible doubts and uncertainty. Time and again, as she recounted a difficult parenting incident, a showdown with her son, a maternal dilemma, I found myself laying down the book and thinking of near-parallel incidents in my own parenting experiences. It was so difficult to remain detached. I realized that at the heart of it, all parents face pretty much the same pattern of problems with their kids as they continue to strive to do the best they can. But as Eva despairingly realises, you can try to do everything the parenting books tell you, be the most well-intentioned of mothers, and still not get it right. And you need to realize – it’s not your fault.
As you can probably tell, this book really got to me. However I would still recommend it as a superb read. The unfolding of the plot, narrative style and language impressed immensely, although you need to brace yourself for brutal punches, especially at the end. Can you feel any sympathy for Kevin? Or will you simply abhor him? The author leaves you teetering in the middle. A book I’ll be brooding over for quite some time.

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